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SEP-8-04
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Pictures would be great, but for some reason I cannot download my picture onto this site.
But, that is not what I look for. You can get a picture of a person's heart by reading their responses to the questions and seeing what they checked off. It might not be an accurate picture but it is a start.
Some things I always check out is the response to Premartial sex. If they have checked anything other than "not until after marriage" I know that woman is not for me -- not even if they checked "not until engaged".
That does not mean I will not contact them and talk to them and try to build a friendship with them and hopefully help them mature as a believer in Christ -- just means I am not considering them for a relationship ... at that time.
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SEP-4-04
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The very first thing I look for is if they are a born again christian....to me...that's like the password. Without that, nothing else about the person matters-as far as being someone I would date. I then look at education, since I want someone with the same level or more of education. I definitely look to make sure they are Divorced or never married....because I never consider separated or married categories. The next very important thing is their view on pre-marital sex. There is no compromise here. I don't believe in it, so if they do, we would not have the main basics or groundwork in common.I look at their appearance to see if I'm attracted as a person to them specifically. I then look at their height, weight, and other physcial descriptions. I look at if they want children. If they do, I go to the next person since I already have grown children and don't want more. Those are the main things. However, I then look at their interests to see if we have things in common-for instance I see if they love horror movies--which I DON'T.....so if they are into SCI-FI, I know we wouldn't have much in common. This sounds somewhat silly, but this comes from years of being single and dating, as well as other experiences. I look at their field of work. I definitely read their comments to see if I'm interested in what words they choose. I then look at where they live. Somewhere in the middle of all of this, I look to see if the have children at home and want/need someone to fill the daily role as a mother. Since my children are grown and I plan to attend law school soon, I'm only interested in someone who's children are grown, or visit occasionally, and who has a stable career-so that our schedules in life will be compatible. But along with these things, I pray and ask God. :)
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AUG-26-04
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I'm looking for a wonderful, Christian man in his 40s who will love me unceasingly and adore my son...I know he's out there somewhere. Where is he Lord?? :-) With that said, when I look through the "200 online" search, I first look at age. Then if he attracts me with his photo, or peeks my interest, I pull up his profile and start reading. As someone above me said, too many, "Don't wish to Respond" entries is a major turn-off, especially on the pre-maritial sex issue. That should not be an issue. Period. Next, church attendance. I attend every week and am very active in church and I need someone like that also. Next, I read how many kids (if any) he has, and try to get a feel for what kind of person he is by his comments. I must say, I love intelligent men, and if his comments are filled with misspellings and bad grammar, or if he seems a little negative, I move on...sorry! Spell check guys!! Also, comments that are too short don't give you much to go on. I've read some comments that are absolutely charming. Full of expression and humor. I love that. Next, where is he?? Is he GUD?? (Geographically Undesireable) If he's close-by I keep reading. I have to say, I too like lots of photos. Not because I'm so interested in his looks, but you get a better idea of what kind of person he is and his life. Of course, its very important to me to find someone who doesn't drink or smoke and all that good stuff. Anyway, I know the Lord has someone in mind for me. Whether I meet him on this site or not, doesn't matter. I know my future husband is in God's hands and He will bring us together when the time is right...I wonder what he's doing right now???
[Editor's Note: You said you look through the 200 Online Search. I'm hoping you are aware of the search tab where you may search among just your age range and other preferences. As well, paid members may do a 2-way match among even more criteria to really limit their search to just what they're looking for. - Nannette]
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AUG-19-04
13:1:33
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I look at their picture first, since that's the first thing I see. Then...I read the profile, and wait to see if there is something there that..catches my attention. I check to see how..stringent they are in their beliefs (letter of the law sorta thing..)...and if that's the sense that I get, that they are ..somewhat rigid and unbending? I close the profile.
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AUG-19-04
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A picture is always nice to see! I look at the whole profile especially age, height, religion (definitely key. If my interest is sparked then I go to the person's preferences and if I don't fit their criteria, then I move on to the next profile. I agree with some of the earlier postings that it is quite frustrating to see Do not wish to respond as the standard answer given.
I do have one point to comment on though, I dislike it when I get mail from someone who obviously did not read my profile or looked at my preferences. Sometimes some people just want to be friendly and I can appreciate that and to those I do respond!! However, to others out there who are in search of romantic partners before you set yourself up for getting your feelings hurt, show some courtesy and read a person's profile before you write.
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